A few weeks ago we made a heart garland as part of our ‘advent calendar of activities’. And as it was looking so nice hanging in our big window, I’ve not really wanted to take it down. But the colours were more Christmas than Valentines, so yesterday we replaced it with a new version, which is more seasonally appropriate. This time we used papers in two different pinkish/purpley colours, and we made the hearts bigger than for our Christmas version.
As you might know by now, I like to keep our crafting activities fairly simple, so that Penguin can take an active part, helping him feel confident and competent. At the same time, they are very much ‘together activities’, as they generally require an active part on my behalf too. Making these things together (rather than me just instructing) also makes crafting an opportunity for connecting, interacting and communicating, focusing together on a joint project. This means that we’re practising ‘joint attention’, which is something that doesn’t come naturally to many autistic persons, and in Penguin’s case is definitely useful to work on. Plus it’s enjoyable doing things together, and when it’s done it can be celebrated as a joint achievement, which works as a kind of ‘reward system’. Focusing on our joint achievement (rather than just his) also decreases task performance anxiety. For more on how shared activities and celebrating together can be a great thing when working with autistic kids, I suggest reading this post on social rewards, by Bill Nason of Autism Discussion Page.
If you too want to make a paper heart garland together, this is how we did it:
- Take one of your A4 size papers and fold it in half lengthways, to make a line down the middle (this was done mainly by me, with some help from Penguin).
- Then cut the paper in half, using the folding line as guide (Penguin did this bit.)
- Fold your strip of paper backwards and forwards. To make three hearts per strip, there should be approximately 4,5 cm between each fold. (I took the lead doing this, with Penguin assisting in pressing the folds down.)
- Draw half a heart on top of your folded strip of paper, making sure that the center of the heart is on the fold side, do that it’ll make three whole heartshapes when cut. (I did this bit.)
- Cut along the lines you’ve drawn. (Penguin did the cutting here, but I had to help with holding the folded paper together and guiding it.)
- Make a hole for the string to pass through, using a hole puncher. (We took turns doing this, and I was reminded that we should get a better hole puncher, as this one’s become too tough to work with.)
- Unfold to reveal a strip of three hearts ♥️♥️♥️. Now make a few more!
- When you’ve done enough heart strips to cover the length of garland you’d like, just thread them all onto a piece of string, and hang your garland up. Lovely!
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Ooh I love your ideas! Been starting to look for valentines themed ones for this month and this is perfect. Love what you said about how doing it together ‘decreases task performance anxiety’ – such a good point and one that I think is often overlooked.
#thesatsesh
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Just noticed that my reply to your comment ended up as a separate comment instead of a reply… my clumsy fingers I think ☺️ So I’ll paste it in here now as well:
Thank you! Yes, the performance anxiety aspect is really important to us (as to many others I’m sure). Do check out Bill Nasons text on it too (which I’ve linked to in the post) if you havent already. There’s also a slide show about it on his fb page, in photos. Might be time for me to share that again on fb later 😉x
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Thanks! Ooh I will do, thanks 👍
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I did share the slides from Autism Discussion page on my fb again the other day too, so have a look at those as well. Really helpful in my opinion, hope you get something out of them too 😊👍x
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Thank you! Yes, the performance anxiety aspect is really important to us (as to many others I’m sure). Do check out Bill Nasons text on it too (which I’ve linked to in the post) if you havent already. There’s also a slide show about it on his fb page, in photos. Might be time for me to share that again on fb later 😉x
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This is a lovely idea and I like the idea of doing it together rather than becoming an instructor (as can happen too easily).
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ooops, forgot the #thesatsesh
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Thank you very much, Helen x
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What a lovely idea! I love the idea of keeping crafts simple so that children can take an active role- brilliant. #thesatsesh
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Thank you Jenny! Yes, and in our case we really need to work on fine motor skills etc, so to choose a craft that’s to advanced would defeat the purpose, and would probably end up more frustating than fun. And keeping it fun is key, really, to keep motivation up and build confidence 🙂👍x
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This is lovely. I can never ever draw half a heart shape though .
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Thank you! If you have a cookie cutter or anything else heartshaped you could make a template. You can do it! 👍
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Thats a great idea. I would never have thought to draw round something duh! lol Maybe now I will not have to do extra cutting and shaping
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Ahh! That is so pretty! What a fantastic idea. #MMBC
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Thank you so much, Kim! 💕
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Your heart garland looks lovely. It’s great that you’re enjoying your time creating together, making memories and learning along the way.
I’m a big believer in building confidence through art. I’m a fan of process art, where the focus is on the experience rather than the final product. It’s all about discovering, exploring and creating and is a lot of fun too! #MMBC
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Thank you Debbie! You’re making some very good points here. I too believe the process has too be enjoyable, and if it’s enjoyable enough in itself, there doesn’t need to be an end product.
For my son’s motivation though, a final goal seems to be a good thing, helping to build a sense of competence/achievement. Unless it’s pure sensory joy which is the prime idea of the activity 😊x
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This is a lovely post and is so much more than just the instructions for a fab Valentine’s activity (which I hope to do this half term). Your explanation of why doing the task together is important is really powerful – you make such good points. #thesatsesh xx
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Thank you so much, Haley! I really appreciate your reading and commenting on this, and I’m so glad my points seem to get through, that’s lovely to hear! I hope you’ll have a great time together at half term, whatever activities you get up to! 💕
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I love this idea. So simple but looks really pretty. Some good skills there too, threading and cutting. I’ve got some coloured craft paper, I’ll have to give this a go! Thank you for linking up to the #familyfunlinky
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Yay, go for it! Thank you for your comments, and have good fun making your garland! 💕
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I love it! I really like the different colour combo and works really well. Nothing like doing something handmade, has a lot more meaning to it X #mmbc
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Thank you very much! Yes, I’m not really one for buying decorations, but making them ourselves is great 😊x
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Aww what a lovely idea for Valentines Day! I might make these with my daughter tomorrow, thank you 🙂 #BloggerClubUK
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That’s lovely to hear Helen! Hope you both enjoy a bit of paper craft together tomorrow! x
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Its really lovely and my boys would love doing this as they could use scissors. great idea #bloggerclubuk
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Thank you Sarah, that’s lovely to hear. I hope you and your boys have great fun with this little project!
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I do love handmade and this bunting is lovely. #thesatsesh
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Thank you! 💕
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Returning via #KidsandKreativity
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Brilliant. I’ll have to show this one to my daughter as she is always looking for craft ideas to do. I know she will love this idea
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I’ve just noticed that I’d missed this comment from you, sorry about that! Thank you, and I hope your daughter liked it too! 🙂
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What a fab craft and such a lovely activity to do together 🙂
Thanks for sharing with #MMBC. Hope to see you Monday x
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Thank you Jayne! Yes, very likely to be back on Monday 😊x
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This is such a clever activity to do with children! #GlobalBlogging
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Thank you! x
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Such a lovely idea, by daughter would love this! #BrillBlogPosts
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Thank you! Enjoy making it together! 😀💕
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Love this!! Love hearts are fab all year round #familyfunlinky
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Thank you!💕 I agree, it doesn’t have to be just for Valentines or Christmas time. Looks lovely all year round really 😊x
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Such a cute and fun idea! Thanks for sharing with us at the Virtual Refrigerator. Pinned.
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Thank you very much! I really like your blog!
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What a lovely idea; so simple and yet really effective!
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sorry forgot to say I had popped over from #kids&kreativity 🙂
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Thank you Naomi! I always try to find/think of things which are very simple to do, yet end up (hopefully) looking good 😀👍x
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This is super cute! Love a garland. Thanks for linking up with #KidsandKreativity, I really hope you come back next time x
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Thank you Kerry! 💕x
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I’ve been looking for a valentines craft that my 3 year old can do and this is perfect thank you. I may also do it with egg shapes for Easter too!
Katrina x
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Thank you Katrina! I hope you have great fun making these as well as the egg shapes for Easter, which is a fab idea! Happy Valentine’s Day! x
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This is such a cute craft for Valentine’s – love it! 🙂 #KCACOLS
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Thanks so much Hannah! Happy Valentine’s Day! x
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It looks brilliant and very seasonal. I need to get myself a hole puncher I can see it would make this much easier. Also thanks for the tip on the social rewards post I will give it a read. Thanks so much for linking up at #KCACOLS. Hope you come back again next time
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Thank you Jade! I hope you and yours are having a lovely Valentine’s Day today ❤
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I’ll have to give these a go with my boys. They look simple and sweet from valentines day.
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Thank you! They are very simple to make, and decorative. I hope you and your boys will have a good time crafting together. Happy Valentine’s Day! x
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Cute! #KCAOCLS
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Thank you ❤
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This is so lovely, and perfect if things feel a bit bleak with all the old Christmas decorations coming down! x #KCACOLS
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Thank you, that’s so true Madeline, and we’re only just getting the last of our Christmas decorations down this week! x
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What a lovely idea, it’s super pretty x x #KCACOLS
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Thank you Dana! xx
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We loved decorating for every occasion and I know my boys would absolutely love making this garland. #KCACOLS
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That’s great to hear! Thank you ❤
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