Our Easter has been very low-key. In a way you could say we’re still ‘recovering’ from our house move, which has been draining for us in many different ways, mentally, financially and physically. We’re very, very happy to have got here, and the house suits our needs really well. Penguin is delighted to now have a bathtub, and to have his trampoline back again (even if it does take up half the garden space)! And we’re all thankful for having a proper kitchen again, with all the conveniences of modern life such as a dishwasher and a washing machine.
The surroundings are great too, with open fields outside our windows while still only a short walk from the town center. On Easter Sunday we went for a nice long walk to explore and further familiarise ourselves with our new area.
Before we were about to set off, we discovered that the Easter bunny must have hopped through our garden, as there were three small Crunchie bars, an Easter egg and a packet of Party Rings under the trampoline! Penguin was very pleased with the Crunchies in particular, though he seemed to find it a bit of a bother that he had to get in under the trampoline to collect them.
After scoffing down one of the chocolate bars and having a celebratory bounce on the trampoline, we set off on our walk.
We found a small road leading out into the fields. As you can see, we have a train line nearby, which I find quite exciting as we haven’t lived near one for about eight years. We’ve been on a few different steam trains with Penguin (both miniature and full-sized ones) but last time he went on a regular modern train he was only a toddler, so it’s something that could be interesting to do again soon. I’m not sure if he’ll like it, but I hope so!
With all the rain we’ve had lately, many of the fields have turned into wetlands, which seems to be much appreciated by all the birdlife here. With the old windmill in the background and all the water in front, this field looked almost like a postcard view from Holland…
Suddenly a cat appeared, and it was very keen to come and say hello to us. Penguin wasn’t so sure though. He’s generally happy with animals that move calmly, while those with more erratic movements can get him pretty anxious (and chickens are his worst fear). This particular cat was quite a bouncy little Tigger, and Penguin clearly classed him as a potentially dangerous beast. As if that wasn’t enough, a jolly dog then came around the corner, just as keen to see us as the cat had been.
Penguin usually finds dogs amusing to look at from a safe distance, but very frightening when they come up close. This can be a real issue at times, especially if there’s traffic about, as he percieves dogs as more of a threat than cars. Luckily there was no traffic on this little country lane, so Penguin could safely distance himself from the enthusiastic pooch, while I kept it busy (and the owner was following not far behind). With the threat of fury creatures averted, we continued our explorations.
We didn’t have any set plan, so we pretty much just let our path be decided by what gates were open or closed, and following Penguin’s lead.
There’s clearly more than one way to get around a puddle…
…which reminds me about something I was told years ago, about using positive language, especially with kids who may have difficulties processing verbal information: If you say “DON’T step in the puddle” (using negative language), the child might only register the last part of the sentance (…”step in the puddle”). So to use positive language, such as “go AROUND the puddle” (or “on the side of”, or maybe even “walk on the dry parts of the road”) is more likely to get the result you were hoping for.
Then again, the more fun option would probably be to put wellies on (or go barefoot if warm enough) and have a proper jump in the puddles instead!
At the end of the road there was a very wide gate, with a much smaller gate on the side. We went through it and had a nosy around the edge of the field on the other side, before heading back towards town again.
Penguin was keen to take the path along the river (River Tillingham), and after that we just strolled through a few streets in town before heading homewards. On the way back we passed a chip shop, and Penguin was keen to go in, so we bought a can of drink for him there and sat down on a bench nearby to drink it and to rest our legs for a bit, before making the final part of the walk home.
In the evening we made a yummy Easter cake with zingy yellow lemon icing, and a homemade multi-coloured cake collar. Not a baker’s showpiece for sure, but the process of baking is always a good one for learning (life skills, measurements, interaction, litteracy, sensory exploration etc.), and this was our first ever attempt of making this kind of icing, so I was learning something new as well.
All in all, we had a very good day. And as I know some areas have had dreadful weather for most of the Easter weekend, I’m really thankful for the mostly dry and even partly sunny weather we’ve experienced. I hope you’ve had a pleasant Easter too, and please feel free to share with us what you’ve been up to in the comments!
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Loved your message about using positive language and your shot could definitely have come from Holland too. Looks like a beautiful area to live. I’m glad to hear you are settling in well. Thank you for linking up to #pointshoot 📷
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Thank you Catie! I’m glad my thinking of a dutch post card has now got the approval of an almost native 😉 I really like your linky (and your blog in general too) so try to join as often as possible 😊📸 x
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That cake looks yummy! We have mostly been staying home in the warmth eating lots of chocolate! 😉 #pointshoot
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Thank you! Chocolate’s not too bad either! 😋x
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Years ago I too read about using positive language and it has stayed with me. It really works wonders for all children.
Your photographs are stunning! Xx
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Thank you so much!! And I’m happy to hear that positive language has been a great thing for you, too! x
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Thats great you had a dry and enjoyable Easter Sunday. We were super lucky too and the sun actually came out! Hurray!
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Yes! Good to hear, hurray for sunshine! 🌤😀x
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Looks like a lovely Easter. Cake looks yummy. We made cake too! #ablogginggoodtime
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Thank you! Great to hear you made a cake too! What cake did you make? Do you have a specific kind of cake which you traditionally make at Easter (we dont, but I know some families do)? 🙂x
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It was a chocolate cake with mini eggs. 🙂
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Brilliant, I love chocolate cake! 😋
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Looks like a lovely walk. Positive language works so much better than negative language. #countrykids
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Thank you! Yes, it does. I still have to think about it consiously all the time though, as it often comes more naturally to say “don’t…” 😏 x
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Lots of fun with a cake at the end! #CountryKids
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Pretty much, yes! 😊👍
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It looks like you had a fab day together! We spent it with the inlaws doing a treasure hunt in the front room for little man as on a larger scale, it would have been too much for him! That cake looks super tasty also.
Thank you for sharing this with us at #TriumphantTales. I hope to see you back next week.
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Thank you! Mini treasure hunt sounds lovely. I like doing things on a smaller scale and low-key, in general ☺️ x
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Looks like you enjoyed a lovely walk. Mine would have loved seeing the cat, but dislike over-enthusiastic pooches. The cake looks scrummy
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Thank you! Yes, I can totally sympathize with that, I’m always more cautious about dogs than cats 🙂 x
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House moving can be so stressful but it’s great to see you’re already out and about exploring the area and having a lovely Easter. Looks wonderful! #CountryKids
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Thank you so much! Yes, it’s been pretty stressful… but we’re very happy to be where we are now xx
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That was certainly an eventful walk with the cat and the dog coming to say hello. I was fascinated by your language advice for the puddles, I think that positive language would work better for any child, it’s not something I’d thought about before. Looks like you are starting to find your feet in the new area and discover some lovely local countryside.
Thank you for sharing with me on #CountryKids
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Thank you Fiona! I’m glad my explanation of positive language makes sense, and yes I think it’s something which can be useful with most children, as well as being extra helpful for some kids. A lot of strategies that work well for children with disabilities can also be helpful for kids in general (other examples are not giving too many instructions at once but breaking things down, step by step, or using visual supports, like images to help explaining or remembering things).
So many inspiring posts on the linky this week! Thank you for being a great host 😀👍x
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Ooh I cannot wait until we move, I am glad that the area you have moved to is nice! Thats always a bonus haha 🙂 #CountryKids
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Haha yep, always nice to live somewhere nice, if possible! ☺️ Best of luck with your upcoming move x
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It’s lovely to explore a new area but I do understand the unpredictability of animals. That cake looks really tasty and I agree you learn so many skills during the making and baking. #TriumphantTales
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Thank you! X
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I like the idea of using the positive wording, I think that would work really well with my daughter April. That cake looks amazing by the way, so yummy! Moving can be so very stressful but I am glad you have the space to enjoy. Our trampoline has given our children so much fun and it takes up half our yard too! We are actually going to try and get a smaller one and make some more room for relaxing spaces. Thank you for sharing this with #ablogginggoodtime
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Thank you for your lovely comment, Mac! Best of luck with using the positive wording (I have to keep reminding myself, it’s so easy to fall back into all those “don’t”s), I hope you’ll find it helpful 💖 I’ve been hinting at getting a smaller trampoline too before, but seeing how much Penguin still loves the large one he’s got, I suspect it’s here to stay 😊xx
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That’s so interesting about the positive language, it’s something I hadn’t considered before. I will try that with my two and let you know! Thanks for linking this to #thursdayteam
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Thank you Sarah, please do try it, and I hope it’ll be really helpful for you, too 💕
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I love the progress photos of the walk, and that cake looks so good! The photo of the dog is gorgeous too – he looks like he’s running from the scary cat. 😀 #KCACOLS
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Thank you so much for your lovely comment! And yes, I see how it could look that way with the dog haha 😄 x
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Ah it looks very quaint and picturesque where you live. Our Easter was also a bit of a no show due to illness and hubs working. We tried to get our Easter craft on at home but I defo need to try harder next year.
#KCACOLS
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Thank you! It can be tricky sometimes, with Easter, Christmas etc, to put the right amount of effort in. You don’t want to wear yourself out over these things, but still make it a somewhat special time with those closest to you, and something you can look back on with a smile, hopefully 🙂 x
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It looks like you’ve moved to a really beautiful area. I hope you have a happy life there and make lots of lovely memories. PS the cake looked delicious! #KCACOLS
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Thank you so much! I hope so too 💕xx
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Sounds like a lovely weekend! We love going for walks in the countryside 🙂 #BlogCrush
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Thank you Alice, have a lovely weekend! X
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Beautiful pictures! I didn’t actually know about using positive words instead of negative to get the desired effect so I’m looking forward to giving these a go with my toddlers! Thanks so much for linking up at #KCACOLS. Hope you come back again next time
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Thank you so much! 💕 I hope your toddlers respond well, too. I still have to keep reminding myself, it’s so easy to say ‘don’t’ all the time about a whole lot of things… 😌xx
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Such beautiful photos! I am so gutted the Easter holidays are over! #KCACOLS
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Thank you so much, Beth! And I’m so grateful that we don’t have to deal with the rollercoaster of holidays, now that we’re home edding xx
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What a lovely Easter day. You saw some lovely places and that road with the colourful houses is so cute. Thanks for joining in with #GetMooreFromLife
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Thank you Steph! I love those colourful houses too 😍x
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It looks like you have moved to a really lovely place with lovely walks on your doorstep. I hope you are feeling a little more settled in now #getmoorefromlife
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Thank you! It is a lovely place, though we still feel that we’d love to have a car again, so that we can go and explore in other areas too 😊 Today however is cold, wet and windy, so we’ve stayed in. Glad Valborg! x
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