I hope everyone’s had a happy Halloween out there, even if it might be a bit different to usual this year. For me, the most memorable moment of this Halloween week happened on Thursday evening, when Penguin and I were making a start at carving the largest of our pumpkins…

I used his AAC (we have a communication app on ipad, but there are many other forms of AAC, as you can read about in my recent post HERE) to ask him to come to the table, where I’d put the pumpkin and tools for carving. ”I need help”, I said, using his AAC. And Penguin came over to help.
We started by cutting out a lid at the top, both holding the knife together. We had the AAC at hand and I modelled some core words such as “go” and “good”, while we were working. (Core words are words that can be frequently used in lots of different contexts, and it’s generally recommended to have a focus on these words when learning to use AAC, as they can be useful for communicating a great variety of things.)
Once the lid was ready to be lifted, I modelled “open”. Penguin lifted it, looking quite excited at first, then totally disgusted when he saw the stringy innards! I’m not sure what he was expecting, as he was just as disgusted last year.
I said “you don’t like that, do you?!” and used his AAC to model “you do not like”. He looked at me and looked at the disgusting pumpkin guts, and said (using his AAC):
“Stop helping”
Wow! This is the first time ever that he’s been able to communicate anything like this using language (rather than behaviour)! And he used a two-word combination! Without me prompting it at all, totally on his own initiative!

Until this, he’s only really used single words, to tell me something he wants or to answer me when I’ve asked him something, such as “what’s this?”
This time he used his AAC to communicate a need/wish, to stop doing something which he felt was getting too much for him. That’s huge for us. I hope it’s the first of more to come!
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Below are a couple of shots from the drilling that Penguin did later, to turn our pumpkin into a lantern (after I’d emptied all those horrible guts out). Hubby and I helped too, but he made about 12 or so of the holes himself. Perhaps time for some woodwork next…?


And here’s the finished product, with candle inside and reunited with its pumpkin friends:

Thank you so much for reading! Comments and questions are as always very welcome below. Take care and stay safe x
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Yay!!!!! Functional language, that is HUGE. How exciting Malin, WELL DONE PENGUIN xxx
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Thank you Martha!! I’m super excited, and hoping that it might be the beginning of more, bit by bit… Fingers crossed! xxx
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That is brilliant and well done him. A moment of real achievement. As someone who worked with children with SEN as a nurse I know how important these moments are. That ACC looks like a good tool too! Thanks for sharing with #parentpower
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Thank you Karen! Yes, I’m super thankful that AAC technology like this exists, it’s really a wonderful thing xx
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Great effect of the drilled holes. I found pumpkin carving so tricky last year but am so glad it proved to be such a milestone for your family. Thanks for linking up with #parentpower
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Thank you Laura! I too find the regular carving tough. Drilling was much more fun for us! And I’m still super happy about Penguin’s communication 🙂 x
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So great to hear that this activity helped with his communication. Love the drilled effect to make a lantern, looks great! Thanks so much for linking up at #KCACOLS. Hope you come back again next time.
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Thank you so much! 🙂 xx
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I am going to try this next Halloween or get my husband to do it with the kids (i’m not big on using a drill myself). It looks so effective. #KCACOLS
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Thank you Jade! I think my husband was more keen to be involved this time due to the power tool aspect of it, lol x
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This is great, thanks for sharing #kidsandkreativity@_karendennis
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Thanks so much Karen! Have a lovely weekend x
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Oh, Malin, this is fantastic news! I can imagine how you felt when you saw his answer! The pumpkin turned out great. Love how it looks with all the wholes. I think you are right, maybe some woodwork will be interesting next time 😉 xx
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Thank you so much Franca! I’m still so happy and excited, it really means a lot that he chose to communicate with words rather than getting upset and frustrated in this situation.
I think me and Penguin both could benefit from a woodwork class together. Hubby is great with it, so he can teach us 🙂 xx
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OMG, I missed the hashtag again! What is wrong with me today! 😳 #KCACOLS
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Haha, it’s easily done! x
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Well done little one, what a massive achievement 🙂 and such a memorable moment too. You’ve also taught me about AAC as I’ve had no idea about this before – how incredible x
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Thank you so much! And I’m happy to hear you learnt about AAC from us as well, brilliant! xx
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Such a good idea, I’ll definitely be giving this a go next year! #KidsAndKreativity
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It was much simpler than the usual carving, and we found it more enjoyable! x
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Honestly so excited to be reading this. Fantastic it of communicating! Well done Penguin x
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Thank you so much lovely! I’m still really excited myself 😀 Very encouraging! xx
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That’s amazing – well done Penguin. Drilling holes in the pumpkin is such a great idea. Sounds like Penguin enjoyed it. #KidsandKreativity
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Thank you Louise! (I’m sorry I missed your comment until now) x
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Ah this is so lovely, and exciting, I could feel your emotion redaing it. Also great idea for a pumpkin too, simple but effective, just what I like! Thanks again for sharing at #KidsandKreativity
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Thanks so much Kerry! Yes indeed, very exciting progress! And the drilling was so much more simple than the usual carving, and as you say still very effective, so I’m sure we’ll be doing that again 🙂 x
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Good idea! With supervision.
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Thank you! Of course, always with supervision.
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